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I have always been an irregular girl, when I found out I was pregnant I was already 6 weeks in. Long before that I went to have the implant put in, but being a young epileptic, they couldn't give me any hormonal contraceptive, so I only protected myself with a condom, obviously an accident happened. I had plans: travel, a master's degree, work in my career area. At 22 years old, a child did not fit into my plans, so I decided to terminate the pregnancy. I went to Marie Stopes, they treated me completely friendly, they answered all my questions in a very empathetic way, they gave me the copper IUD, but I still use a condom. Without a doubt, I made the best choice. I feel happy and fulfilled thanks to Marie Stopes.
Being underage and from the province, I started looking on the internet for ways to abort, but then I realized how dangerous it could be without medical support. So I gathered enough to go to Mexico City and have an abortion as soon as possible. At Marie Stopes, they received me very well, they did studies and tests before everything. At the end of the procedure, I felt completely normal. I thank Marie Stopes for giving me the option to decide when to be a mother and not just by accident. It gave me a second chance, which makes me think about how complicated this is for someone who is not from the capital; at least I was able to pay for my trip to Mexico City and the procedure, but girls who cannot afford it risk their lives with internet methods.
For me, it has been an experience full of many emotions. I knew I was pregnant for a certain time and I felt somewhat annoyed with myself, I thought about how I had let this happen. After a talk with my boyfriend, we decided that it was not a good time to have a child, he always supported me and it was he who found Marie Stopes. Since I made the appointment, I felt calm, I was nervous and scared, but they treated me in the most beautiful way possible upon arrival, no one judged me, no one told me I was wrong, on the contrary, the nurse who attended me explained everything well and with great clarity, it was something that made me feel sure of what I had decided, and my boyfriend felt the same. We felt calm and very confident. The treatment lasted a long time, but every time they followed up, they made me feel good and calm. Now I am a user, I go every month because I am using the contraceptive injection and they make me feel that I am in the right place. I congratulate them because what they do is not easy. Thank you for making a difficult process, something calmer and safer.
I am 24 years old and at that time a formal boyfriend, every time we had sex we took care of ourselves with a condom, although we both had a job, mine was not stable enough to care for another life, apart from the fact that we had many other plans for us as a couple and personally, becoming independent, establishing ourselves financially, buying a house, traveling and even getting married, to name a few. One day while we were in the act, the condom came off and remained balled up inside my vagina, so we immediately got the morning after pill and I took it that same day, (we really didn't want children). Three and a half weeks after taking it, I had a slight bleeding, and although it was mild, I attributed it to the pill and the hormonal imbalance it causes and I let it go, thinking it was my menstruation. 3 more weeks passed, and I began to feel dizziness, excessive sleep, disgust, cravings and disgust for some foods, which made me doubt, because according to me my period had recently passed. So, I told my boyfriend, and we went to the gynecologist as soon as we got a free appointment. He confirmed that I was 7 weeks and 5 days pregnant, and that the embryo even had a heartbeat. My life fell apart in a matter of seconds. At no point did it feel nice to hear... "you're pregnant", as other women say they feel, it was quite the opposite, it was a feeling of loss, getting pregnant was not at all in my plans, I definitely did NOT want to be a mother and my boyfriend agreed with me. The gynecologist explained everything to me in detail regarding the procedure, telling me that I would feel strong cramps and bleeding. I did everything the doctor told me to down to the letter, but unfortunately for me the medication had no effect on me, and I was already completely desperate and scared. After 8 hours, the gynecologist made the decision to perform a curettage on me. I attended the clinic, everyone treated me wonderfully, they were very kind and attentive, the nurses gave me all the necessary information to put my mind at ease, since I had never been in any operation or surgery of any kind. After approximately 20 minutes, I left the procedure, rested for 6 hours and walked out of there. I swear, when the doctor told me that everything had gone well and I could go home, I felt an indescribable relief, I almost wanted to hug her with happiness, I felt that life had given me a second chance. To this day I have no regrets, I feel no guilt and in fact I maintain and affirm that this was, although difficult, the best "life" decision of my life, and always with the support of my boyfriend, close family and a gynecologist. who kept me informed all the time without judging me. I am 24 years old, I have dreams and great aspirations, being a mother now is not one of them.
I am 35 years old. About 4 or 5 years ago, I had a partner with whom an unplanned pregnancy occurred, even though I took the emergency pill following the instructions exactly. We talked about it and concluded that it was not the time to have a child (I have one from a previous relationship), so I dedicated myself to looking for a reliable clinic, and that’s how I found Marie Stopes. The care was excellent, I did not feel judged or questioned at any time. It was a difficult but necessary decision. I am no longer with that partner, and every day I am more convinced that it was the best decision. I have a good job, I study high school on Saturdays, and I enjoy my child very much.
I live in a state where it is illegal for a woman to choose to have an abortion. I was part of the 1% who got pregnant even though I had an IUD, unfortunately I did not have the financial solvency to travel to CDMX to access a legal termination of pregnancy. So, I decided to find a method to do it at home. Friends recommended some pills to me, but they didn't work, or maybe I didn't use them correctly. I looked for help in private clinics, but no one helped me. I finally found someone, but I still had to face the same doctor judging me, questioning everything. I would have liked to have had the support of organizations like Marie Stopes who provide non-judgmental support. I hope abortion is legalized throughout the country soon. People must understand that our decision was not to carry out a pregnancy, I chose to take care of myself with the IUD and I still got pregnant, I was responsible, I have the right to choose.
I am a mother of 2 men, I longed for a while to have a girl, but then the desire disappeared, so at 39 years old it was a surprise to find myself pregnant again. Our economic situation was at its worst, my husband had lost his business, we had no possibility to support another child, the fear of age and the complications of the last pregnancy terrified me. My husband and I decided to terminate the pregnancy. The EMA had recently been "legalized" in CDMX. We searched and found Marie Stopes. In the consultation they treated me with unconditional understanding, they cleared up the thousand doubts I had, they gave me the medications and instructions. I chose to do it at home, but they still accompanied me at all times. I called the help line a couple of times and they explained my reactions. It's been 6 years, and although it was very difficult, I know it was the best decision. If it helps anyone to read my experience, they should know that they are not alone in the clinic and on the help line they will be accompanied.
Three months ago, I went to Marie Stopes. I made the decision to terminate my pregnancy since I did not have support from the father, and I suffered abuse. I investigated and found the light with you by giving me the security and courage to travel to CDMX. They treated me amazingly and after the procedure they even sang me a couple of songs. 😍😍😍 I am very grateful because thanks to Marie Stopes I was able to regain control of my life.
I am 19 years old, and I am studying in high school. A month ago, I found out that I was five weeks pregnant, and neither my boyfriend nor I expected it, given that we had always taken care of ourselves. I was filled with fear and insecurity, but fortunately my boyfriend always always gave me his love and support. We are not in an adequate situation to bring a child into the world, so we decided to terminate the pregnancy by going to Marie Stopes. From the first moment I called they made me feel calm and confident. When the day arrived, I felt very nervous, however the doctor, the nurses, the receptionist and all the staff at the clinic treated me very well. During the procedure the nurse let me know that she would be with me no matter what and that gave me a lot of peace. I really appreciate the great treatment and professionalism they provide. At all times they made me know that my safety was the most important thing. I wish there could be more Marie Stopes clinics around the country so that more people can make safe choices about their own lives.
I was really glad to visit you. Everyone without exception was very nice and attentive. Everything is very calm, without any alterations. An EMA is a brave and smart decision. Life has mistakes, and everything has a time which we decide. Thank you so much.
My husband and I had been married for just over a year when I found out I was pregnant. Due to several circumstances, at the same time we were going through what we until now consider to be one of the worst stages we have ever experienced. We talked about it and together we decided that having a child was NOT an option, since things were so bad that we were not sure if we would continue being together. It was not the only reason, but it was the main one. I opted for the procedure with medication, however, I was one of the few cases in which "total" interruption was not achieved. It gave me great relief that, as Marie Stopes offers, if the medication fails, the new procedure is performed at no additional charge. And that was it, I no longer had to pay anything, and the interruption was complete. The relationship with my husband has stabilized, and although we continue to have some conflicts, today we are sure that if we had continued with the pregnancy, first of all we would not be together, and secondly everything would be complicated to have a child while we were separated; fighting for the stability of that baby. A child does not fix a difficult marriage. That is what we believe. I have always been in favor of legal termination of pregnancy. Since it was legalized in CDMX I kept up to date with how and where it was carried out; and that's how I learned about Marie Stopes. So, when the time came, I was already following them on Facebook.
My partner and I took care of ourselves with birth control pills, which failed. I was 17 years old and not ready to be a mother. When we found out about the pregnancy, my partner and I talked about it and made the decision to abort. From the beginning we thought of Marie Stopes, because of their guaranteed quality. They treated me very well and didn't question me about anything. We all have the right to decide about our body and life project. I hope that other girls who are in my situation and who make this decision know that they can trust an institution like Marie Stopes.
At 25 years old I had sex with my boyfriend, using the rhythm method that was not convenient for me because I am irregular, I got pregnant, my boyfriend said he wanted to have it but I didn't, because I wanted to continue working towards my goals, one of them was to study for a master's degree, and we had only been dating for a few months and I didn't want to marry him (yet). I went to Marie Stopes and had an abortion with pills. My boyfriend was involved in the entire process. He broke up with me because, according to him, he did want to have the baby (He was 22 years old) that happened four years ago, we are now married. We don't want to have children yet; I am about to finish my master's degree. I am calm that I made the decision and after a while he told me that it was for the best because back then it sounded easy for him, and that it had been the best choice. Today we really enjoyed being together, thank you for not judging us. I now take care of myself with the IUD, which I also got at Marie Stopes.
I found out I was pregnant when I went to the doctor with my boyfriend and had an ultrasound. He congratulated us, and I was filled with fear and confused thoughts, so much that I cried while nervously laughing. He mentioned I was 5 weeks along. On the way home, I suggested to my partner that we consider abortion, he looked at me angrily and didn’t answer. That night we talked about what we had and what we could offer a baby at that time, and we concluded that it was the best decision. We started to gather the money. Days after completing the sum, I started crying and hugged him, telling him I wished we didn’t have the necessary funds. We scheduled the appointment, and he accompanied me. The nurse was always very kind, and when she asked if I had doubts, I said yes, but they were not about the procedure, but about the decision, remembering why I was doing it and I went ahead. In the operating room, the nurse tried to calm me down, but I cried again when the doctor began. Whenever I had doubts, I communicated with Marie Stopes, and they solved everything for me. I spent several nights crying and missing my pregnancy symptoms, however, almost two months later, I still believe it was the best decision. My relationship was somewhat affected, but he continues to support me unconditionally. Thank you, Marie Stopes, for being an excellent organization.
Six years ago, my partner and I decided not to become parents. I am originally from Morelia, Michoacán. I was very scared, but upon arriving at the clinic, I met such warm and professional staff that they did not question our decision and gave me the confidence and respect that every woman deserves. At first, it was very difficult to accept, but today I recognize that it has been the best decision we made. I have fulfilled myself in many aspects of my life, a situation that would have been complicated if I had brought my twin pregnancy to term.
I was 24 years old when I got pregnant, I had left my job to finish my thesis. It was not an easy decision, but it was obvious that I was neither economically nor emotionally prepared for such a big responsibility. I am enormously grateful to the staff of MARIE STOPES, the gynecologist, and the nurses who made me feel calm at every moment; there was one in particular who let me hold her hand and calmed me during the procedure. They were always kind and willing to help me during the most difficult moment of my life.
My partner and I went to the Marie Stopes clinic. We came from Monterrey, Nuevo León. The whole process was on the same day. It was a bit difficult, but it was worth it.
In such a difficult moment as my unexpected pregnancy, Marie Stopes helped me a lot; my experience was better than I thought. I was very scared and felt great uncertainty about what could happen to me, I thought I would be judged, but that was not the case. I received excellent treatment, the follow-up at each appointment was the best; everything is handled with great discretion. If you have a doubt, they resolve it instantly, whether by phone, in the clinic, or through the website. Girls, if you find yourselves in a difficult situation where you know you are not ready to be a mother, do not do it because of other people’s pressures. It is YOUR body, YOUR life, YOUR future. I assure you that you will live more peacefully doing what you choose. Live, travel, laugh, love for much longer, as I do now. I highly recommend the services of Marie Stopes; they are highly professional.
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